Rabbi Eli Freedman Erev Rosh Hashanah Sermon 9.11.26: What We Give to Shabbat

Shanah Tovah… and Shabbat Shalom! We’re celebrating the New Year and Shabbat on the same night. So let me tell you a story about a man named Yosef.

Yosef was a cobbler, which meant his hands were always cracked, his back always sore, and his wallet always close to empty. But every single Friday, no matter what, he filled his home with delicious food and wonderful people. Neighbors, friends, whoever needed a seat. Not so different from our Pre-Oneg Fest earlier this evening. Great food, sure, but really it was the room itself. People catching up, kids running between tables, the feeling of community. That’s exactly what Yosef was after, every week of his life.

He’d walk through the market on Friday mornings, stopping at every stall, asking each vendor the same question: do you have anything special today? I have an important guest coming. And when people asked him who this important guest was, he’d say, Shabbat. A little wine. A little bread. Whatever fish looked best, even if it cost more than he had. His neighbors gave him a nickname: Yosef Mokir Shabbes. Yosef, who treasures Shabbat.

Near Yosef, in a fortress at the edge of town, lived a man named Baltasar. Baltasar had thirteen boxes of gold coins locked away in his cellar. Frugal was a generous word for it. He counted his coins the way other people count sheep, every night before bed, and never spent a penny he didn’t have to.

One night Baltasar had a dream. His thirteen boxes of gold sprouted little feet and marched out of his fortress, down the street, into Yosef’s shop. Baltasar woke up screaming. He was so shaken that he consulted the astrologers in town, who told him his fortune was destined for Yosef. All of it.

So Baltasar sold everything, every last bit of property, and bought a single, enormous jewel with the money. He sewed it into the lining of his hat and never took it off, so he could always keep his eye on it.

One afternoon, Baltasar was crossing a bridge over the river, and a gust of wind caught his hat and knocked it into the water. He watched his entire fortune go under. A fish swam by and swallowed the jewel whole.

The next day was Friday, and when some fishermen hauled in their catch, they found one enormous fish among it. It was too big and too late in the day to sell in the market, so someone suggested taking it to Yosef, since Yosef always bought something special, no matter what it cost him.

So they brought it to Yosef, and of course, Yosef bought the fish. He took it home, opened it up to clean it for his Shabbat table, and there, inside the belly of the fish, was the jewel.

In the Talmudic telling of this story, the rabbis end by saying: Kol hamalveh laShabbat, Shabbat pora’at lo. What we give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back.

This isn’t really a story about a curse, or a prophecy, or a very unlucky fish. It’s a story about two men and what they value.

Baltasar spent his whole life trying to protect a fortune from a future he couldn’t control. Yosef spent every single week on something he had no guarantee would ever come back to him.

But it did come back to him, and not just in the form of a jewel inside a fish. What we give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back, in a more joyful, more connected, more meaningful life.

I think about a family I worked with a few years ago. Two working parents, three kids, a calendar so full that dinner most nights happened in shifts, whoever was home first eating standing up at the counter. They decided, almost on a whim, to try one Friday night with candles and no phones. That one turned into most weeks. A couple of years later, the parents told me the thing they remembered wasn’t the food or the prayers. It was their teenager, who barely spoke to anyone most nights, started actually talking at that table, because for once nobody was rushing anywhere and nobody was checking anything. That’s the return the rabbis are envisioning when they say, “What we give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back.”

I hear so many more examples from our congregation. The empty-nester couple who recently moved to Center City and made new friends at Shabbat dinner. The unemployed professional who, despite having so many setbacks, found in Shabbat services a sense of gratitude for what they still had: health, family, a roof over their head. What we give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back.

When couples sit down with me before their wedding, I give them a version of the Newlywed Game, where each partner answers the same set of questions separately. Then the fun comes when we sit together and compare the answers. Where do I always start? Budgeting. One question asks each partner to guess how much the other spends monthly on items like clothes, transportation, subscriptions, and eating out.

Someone always looks a little surprised, not just because their partner spends thirty dollars on sushi for lunch every day, but because it hasn’t occurred to them that budgeting is something you’d talk about in premarital counseling in the first place. They expected love, or communication, or in-laws. But I tell them what our own finance committee here at Rodeph Shalom likes to say: a budget is a reflection of our values. It is a moral document. 

A well-built marriage is one where two people name what they value, out loud, and then organize their lives around it, both money and time. That’s not just wedding advice. It’s exactly what Yosef did every single Friday; he knew what he valued, and he built his week around it. What would it look like if we did the same – if we put real value in honoring Shabbat, what would we have to do, and how would it affect our lives?

Close your eyes for a second and actually picture it. Not Shabbat in the abstract. Your Shabbat. What would it look like if we were able to prioritize it?

Maybe you’re single, and it looks like finally saying yes to that standing invitation. Maybe you’re early in your career, and it looks like friends who’ve decided Friday night at home beats another happy hour. Maybe you’re dealing with tots, and it’s all about the sensory experiences like eating challah and drinking that sweet grape juice. Maybe you’re new to all of this, still learning what these words mean, and it looks like just showing up and seeing what happens. There’s no one right way to do Shabbat.

Our young adults host Sha-BBQs, because apparently smoking meat and Shabbat go together better than you’d think. I run into congregants at Santucci’s all the time after services. Our young families gather for playdates after Tot Shabbat on Saturday mornings, because, as it turns out, toddlers and their parents need community just as much as anyone else.

A few years ago, our staff read Priya Parker’s The Art of Gathering and discussed it together. Priya Parker, who’s spent years studying what makes gatherings actually work, teaches that a category isn’t a purpose. Knowing you’re hosting “dinner” tells you nothing about what that dinner is for.

That’s the difference between a meal and a Shabbat table. It’s intentionality: deciding what a particular Friday night is actually for, then letting the candles, the blessings, the same time every week hold that intention in place. Without it, Shabbat is just another dinner that happened to fall on a Friday.

Shabbat is countercultural. Saturday morning soccer games get scheduled without a second thought. Email doesn’t know what day it is. Protecting a Friday night here means going against a culture that treats constant availability as a virtue and rest as something you earn.

Everyone in this room who has managed even one Shabbat dinner, one Friday night with the phones away, or who has come to services regularly, even if you’re late, has done something genuinely countercultural.

Yosef’s extreme love of Shabbat is beautiful, but it’s not realistic for most of us. He’s spending money he doesn’t even have on a fish, week after week. What about savings? What about his kids’ education?! Shabbat doesn’t have to get everything from us. It just has to get something, a real line in the budget of money or time, not whatever’s left over.

The Torah gives us two different verbs for keeping Shabbat. Shamor, guard it. And zachor, remember it. Most of what gets written about Shabbat observance is built around shamor, around the guarding, the list of everything you’re not supposed to do. You’ve probably heard the term, Shomer Shabbes – someone who guards Shabbat by not using electricity or driving in a car. But there’s a whole other side: zocher Shabbat. One who remembers Shabbat. Defined not by the restrictions, but by what actually gets remembered and celebrated.

Here at RS, we host Pizza Shabbat for families with young kids, just as much a celebration of Shabbat as any quiet dinner for two or a table of unrelated friends. Picture that room. Sticky hands, sauce on somebody’s shirt, a song about a Shabbat dinosaur, candles lit, blessings said, and a whole room of people remembering Shabbat together and creating community.

Yosef didn’t need a mansion or thirteen boxes of gold. He needed one good fish and the will to spend on it. What we give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back.

Tonight begins the season of cheshbon hanefesh, our accounting of the soul, where we take the time to examine how our budgets reflect our values.

So here’s some accounting I’ll leave you with. If you give Shabbat a real place in your life this year, you will get something back. You will be less anxious, because for one day a week the emails and the notifications and the endless scroll of everyone else’s highlight reel will not be allowed in the room.  You will find yourself less hungry for the next purchase, the next upgrade, the next thing you were sure would finally make you feel like enough. You will be more grateful, because gratitude is what happens naturally when you stop and actually look at the life you already have instead of racing past it toward the next thing. And you will be more connected to the people at your table and, if you let yourself notice it, to something larger than your own week.

Because this isn’t just about what Shabbat gives you. When you give to Shabbat, Shabbat gives back to our entire community. When you invite someone to your Shabbat table, you inspire them to celebrate Shabbat. When you come to services on Shabbat, you add your voice to our communal song. When you celebrate Shabbat in community, you are a part of a people who have done this together from generation to generation. 

Ahad Ha’am, one of the great Jewish thinkers of the last century, put it this way: more than the Jewish people have kept Shabbat, Shabbat has kept the Jewish people. Every Friday night singing together in the sanctuary, every Pizza Shabbat, every Friday night candle lit anywhere in this world, isn’t just a private choice. It’s part of the same thread that’s held our people together for thousands of years, across every place we’ve lived.

So tonight, on this New Year, on this Shabbat, ask yourself what you want to give. Not just for the sake of your own happier, fuller, more connected life, though that reward is real. But for the sake of everyone who lit a candle before you, and everyone who will light one after you. Yosef didn’t know any of that when he bought his fish. He just knew what he valued. 

This year, may we be called mokir shabbes – a community that treasures Shabbat.

Shanah Tovah. And Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Maderer Rosh Hashanah Sermon 2026: Can AI Do a Mitzvah?

To respond to the most common question I’ve heard this week:  No.  Artificial Intelligence/AI did not write my sermons. I’ve heard it said, that one definition of technology is: whatever came into existence, after you were a kid.  Who remembers learning a B’nai Mitzvah Torah portion on a cassette tape? (What’s a cassette tape?!)  So, how are we feeling about the AI technology that has come into existence lately?

At several college graduations across the country this spring, when the commencement speakers mentioned AI, some students booed.  Why?  Clearly, graduates fear that AI will replace them in the job market.  I wonder: are they also reflecting that AI has hindered their own learning–that when students outsource their writing to AI, they are also outsourcing their thinking?  I wonder: are those students reflecting on how their AI use brings them into an artificial relationship–a relationship they are missing from actual human beings?

Jewish tradition offers wisdom for the many dilemmas–ethical, spiritual, moral, environmental, and human dilemmas—I hear in those graduates’ booing… wisdom many of us yearn for in the face of a technology inclined to favor: productivity over humanization, fluency over friction, information over wisdom, anonymity over voice, knowledge over compassion, prediction over originality, cohesion over truth.

And, our tradition compels us to ask what I believe is the fundamental question underneath all of those AI dilemmas…Indeed, it is the same fundamental question of the Days of Awe, and of Judaism: What is our purpose?…As individuals, as a Jewish community, as humanity.

Here’s what I mean.

A teenager who attends a Philadelphia art school shared that for the school play each department contributes its expertise, with instrumentalists in the pit, media engineers on the lights. As a visual art student, she and her classmates were waiting for the teachers to enlist them to design the promotional poster.  But one morning she awoke to see on her social media that the school principal had already generated the poster, using AI.  She felt heartbroken to witness her role as an artist being replaced, and by the very institution whose purpose it is to empower her.

Contrast that story with one from our Rodeph Shalom office. This fall to honor the 250th birthday of America and our voice as a religious minority, we will spotlight democracy and solidarity. Amid the surge of antisemitism we are collaborating with multifaith clergy on a panel here on our bimah, moderated by CNN’s Dana Bash. Our communications manager used AI to generate a promotional graphic. I’m thrilled with her product, and her use of AI.

So, what’s the difference?  Institutional purpose. The art school neglected its purpose; its mission is to develop artists–that’s not the mission of our congregation.  Consider: how can you apply the distinction to your workplace, or to your relationships?

The contrast demonstrates this standard; in any particular case we can ask ourselves: Would leveraging AI replace a person in a role that is core to our mission?  In order to answer that question, we need to get clear on our mission.  In a workplace, in an institution, and of ultimate gravity on Rosh Hashanah, we need to get clear, on the mission of… us. Our core mission as human beings, and more specifically, as Jews–and those who count themselves as part of our extended Jewish family — our core mission reveals the roles, that cannot be outsourced.  And while society continues to struggle with the potential of AI regulation; in our own lives we have the power to regulate, to discern.  And Jewish wisdom can guide us.

What is our core mission? Mitzvot! Our sacred actions, are our core mission, and require us, without substitution. When we fulfill mitzvot–from loving the immigrant at Breaking Bread on Broad this week, to welcoming guests at the door this morning, to reading Torah a few minutes ago–when we fulfill mitzvot, we are not just accomplishing a task.  Our purpose is in the doing, not only in the having it done. The mitzvah—the doing—is a mitzvah because it takes place in the context of the covenant of our People–the sacred commitment we share with God, with Torah, and with each other.

What is more: a mitzvah requires intent. Take the mitzvah of shofar. If this morning you were out on the sidewalk and you happened to overhear a shofar blast (as one does), does it count as fulfilling the mitzvah of hearing shofar on Rosh Hashanah?  Our sages say, no, because you did not intend to fulfill the mitzvah of being awakened to teshuvah by the sound of shofar. Intent matters.

So, can AI do a mitzvah?

Every month when our crew of congregants cooks and delivers Mitzvah Meals, I get to call those of you who are returning home from the hospital.

One recent call:

Me: Hi Joe, I hope you’re starting to feel better. Can our Mitzvah Meal crew deliver a freshly-cooked meal?

Joe: Oh, you can save it for someone who needs the food, more than I do.

Me: Actually, there’s plenty. And, you know… it’s not just about the food. We want to be able to visit, and bring some love.

Joe: Sounds great. And, could I help cook next time?

Well, turns out Joe heals quickly and does not want to wait the month. He learns that a neighbor will be returning home from the hospital and Joe starts to plan a dinner to bring over. The neighbor’s recovery includes some dietary restrictions — low salt and gluten-free??   AI to the rescue; ChatGPT generates a recipe. So… is this ChatGPT’s mitzvah also? No–AI assists Joe’s mitzvah, but cannot replace the person who is doing the mitzvah to care for the sick.  Now, to complicate the picture: before Joe can even shop for the groceries, he is called to leave town right away for work. He arranges for a fresh meal to be delivered to his neighbor, with…the Uber Eats robot, that we’ve seen traversing the sidewalks. So is this now the robot’s mitzvah?  No– It’s still Joe doing the mitzvah, to care for the sick. Having no intention or place in the covenant, the robot cannot replace Joe.

AI cannot do a mitzvah.

A student beginning our annual Introduction to Judaism course, is curious: how many books are in the Torah?  She enters the question into Gemini, discovers there are five books in the Torah, and continues to learn about Judaism, using AI.  But after the course is underway, she comes to understand: Torah Study between her and the chatbot does not reach the ideal for fulfilling the mitzvah of engaging in the words of Torah.  Why not?  Jewish wisdom guides us to study in community or with a partner, a chevruta. Our text teaches: Acquire for yourself a teacher; find yourself a friend.  It’s not just about the learning, it’s about the relationships that accompany and grow from, the learning. We study with someone who can ask vulnerable questions, stretch our thinking–it’s intimate—and our tradition urges us to understand: intimacy is meant for human relationship. For, when we start to see ourselves in the text we wrestle together with deep questions about our lives–how are we showing up for loved ones?  How can we reduce our anger, jealously, impatience?  How can we notice the presence of God, or holiness, in our day?

AI is a resource in solo learning but if I try to replace my community or chevruta with it, I lose out on an experience of relationship.  AI is designed to fool me into forgetting that.  Its tendency is to be easier than a human relationship–no friction, no slowing down for the awkward or tense human interaction; just cohesion.  And sycophancy.  I’m editing my Bulletin column, I enter a phrase into AI, and before it lists suggestions it responds: “That’s a powerful phrase you have written!” It feels, moved by my eloquence! But wait, it does not feel! I am drawn into an artificial human interaction, in an experience that ought to be reserved, for actual human interaction.

Here, Jewish wisdom teaches me: tap into mindfulness, take a breath.  Resist turning to AI for the dopamine hit of connection.  When I have something to edit, like a Rosh Hashanah sermon, I can load the draft into AI or I can reach out to a friend who knows my voice, understands my spiritual struggles, and shares their own, and as a result of our conversation I can draw closer to another human being.

In a world plagued by loneliness, we cannot afford to be tempted into fake company.  In a world where people are less likely to go out, to take the risk of asking a date to dinner, or a friend for a walk, less likely to step into their own community, and are more likely to take the risk, of seeking comfort from an online, one-way, simulated, relationship… we cannot allow AI, to fill our cup, to affirm our sense of self-worth, to prompt us to feel seen.  In the face of isolation, it’s the mitzvah of what we too may call AI –that is, Actual Intimacy, that is worth seeking.

The ancient rabbis could not have imagined Artificial Intelligence–heck, I can hardly imagine it – still, their teaching of our core mission “Acquire for yourself a teacher, find yourself a friend” illuminates our AI use today.

The sages also teach: In a place where there is no humanity, be human.  Jewish tradition has always understood: to be human, matters.

Human beings are not easy.  We are flawed, raw, inconsistent, and we are compassionate, original, created in God’s image. Our failings are not glitches. We cannot take ourselves to the help desk; there is no turning us off and on again. There’s choosing right, choosing wrong, loving each other, hurting each other. There’s repair, forgiveness, and not just learning, but growth.  In this life, there is no outsourcing the human stuff –the discomfort, disappointment, disbelief–the sitting with a loved one who is dying and looking into their eyes or holding their hand; the rejoicing with a wedding couple, dancing the hora; the toasting at a retirement party; the caring; the risk-taking; the vulnerability; the shared moments, when someone really gets you.

When our tradition teaches: “In a place where there is no humanity, be human,” I hear it — much as I hear those college graduates who chose to boo at AI—I hear it warning us to regulate, pleading with us to pay attention, to know deep in our souls: Humans are unique. Our relationships are precious. Our purpose is holy. To be human–to experience the grief, forgiveness, curiosity, compromise, joy, gratitude, wonder, to experience the covenant that binds us to each other…to be human is holyAI may know the past 2000 years.  But it does not know your next mitzvah.

Source of Holiness: May we get clear, on our sacred purpose, embrace our human bonds — in all of their messiness– as we awaken to the call of shofar, with intention.  L’shanah tovah.

Attribution: Drawn from conversations with my technology professional and general source of wisdom husband, Len Lipkin.

Important Security Updates for High Holy Days Entry at Rodeph Shalom

Dear Rodeph Shalom Community,

As we prepare to gather for the High Holy Days, our top priorities are ensuring our synagogue is spiritually uplifting, warm, and safe for all that gather at RS.

To ensure smooth entry, we are implementing an updated entry protocol at our Green Street entrance. This year, we are utilizing the advanced screening system alongside our trusted security personnel and the Philadelphia Police Department.

The advanced system is a 100% passive detection system. Unlike traditional metal detectors, it does not emit any radiation or energy fields. Because it is completely passive, it is entirely safe for individuals with pacemakers, medical implants, and pregnant individuals.

To help us minimize wait times outside, please review our new entry steps:

  • Arrive 20 minutes before services: Screenings take place entirely outdoors before entering.
  • Bag Check: Security will be searching all handbags, backpacks and tallis bags.  If you are carrying one of these with you, please be prepared for security to look inside your bag before walking through our detection system.
  • Personal Belongings: Security personnel will never directly touch your personal items including your Tallit (prayer shawl) or Machzor (prayer book). If these items obscure the bag, the guard may ask you to shift them yourself.
  • Scanning Protocol: Before walking through the detection system, you will be asked to empty pockets of cell phones, keys and wallets and to remove smart watches/fitness trackers, magnetic name tags, etc. These items will all be put into a basket on the table located next to the detection system.
  • Scanning Process: You will walk past the screening pole at a normal pace and gather your belonging after passing through the detection system.
  • Additional Scanning: If you set-off any alerts when passing through the detection system, security may ask you to step to the side so that can scan you manually using a security wand.

Thank you for your cooperation and partnership in keeping Rodeph Shalom safe.

Shanah Tovah U’metukah,

Josh Laster, Executive Director and Renee Carl, Director of Operations

Rabbi Eli Freedman – These are the Journeys

I’ll start with a piece of Torah trivia with you. In the second of this week’s double portion, Matot-Masei, one verb appears more than forty times. More than forty. It’s the verb lachanot — to camp.

Vayachanu b’Sukkot. They camped at Sukkot. Vayachanu b’Etham. They camped at Etham. Vayachanu bi-Rephidim. They camped at Rephidim. On and on, stop after stop, as the Torah closes out the book of Numbers by recounting every single place the Israelites pitched their tents on the way from Egypt to the Promised Land.

In other words, the final portion of the book of Numbers is essentially Moses reading a camp recap.

And I don’t think that’s an accident. The Torah is obsessed with camping. We became a people in a machaneh — a camp. Before we had a Temple, before we had a homeland, before we had a single permanent address, we had campsites. Forty years of them. If you want to understand who we are, look at where we camped.

So you’ll forgive me if I take this parashah a little literary and talk tonight about my own time at a machaneh in the Poconos — our Union for Reform Judaism’s Camp Harlam — where I spent two weeks this summer serving on faculty. And like the Torah, when I come home from camp, I want to recount the journey. This summer gave me three moments I can’t stop thinking about.

Here’s the first.

It was my second Shabbat at camp. The entire community — hundreds of campers and staff — was packed into the chadar ochel, the dining hall, for Shabbat dinner. The room was loud in the way only a camp dining hall can be loud. And then, all at once: darkness. The power went out across all of camp.

For a moment, it was scary. Hundreds of kids, a sudden blackout, that one long beat of silence before the murmuring starts. Then the emergency generator kicked on, the lights flickered back, and the staff made an announcement: the power company was working on it, but until the power came back — probably sometime in the middle of the night — there would be no running water anywhere on camp.

You could feel the worry ripple through that room. Every camper, every counselor, doing the same math: no sinks, no showers, no — well, you get the idea.

Thinking about that moment, in Divine coincidence, a verse from this very parashah comes to mind: Vayachanu bi-Rephidim, v’lo haya sham mayim la’am lishtot. “They camped at Rephidim, and there was no water there for the people to drink.” Three thousand years later, in the foothills of the Poconos, we were living the wilderness.

But here’s the thing about camp. Dinner ended, and on a Friday night at Harlam, when dinner ends, it’s time for song session. No one canceled it. No one even considered canceling it.

There were no microphones. There were no screens with the words. There were just two remarkable song leaders, Pria and Joella, standing up in that dimly lit room, and beginning to sing.

And the room changed.

Hundreds of voices, singing from memory, arms around shoulders, the worry of the last hour melting into harmony. The night everyone had feared became a night nobody will forget. I stood in the back of that dining hall and watched two young song leaders transform anxiety into celebration, armed with nothing but their voices and our people’s songs.

Here’s the second moment.

One afternoon I sat with our Gesher unit — the seventeen-year-olds in the counselor-in-training program. Gesher means bridge, and that’s exactly where these teens stand: on the bridge between being campers and becoming the leaders who will raise up the next generation.

We were talking about their lives back home, and the conversation turned to antisemitism. I asked how many of them had experienced it personally. Every hand went up. Every single one.

They told me about the comments on social media. The “jokes” in the school hallway. The things said to their faces by classmates, by teammates, sometimes by people they had considered friends. Seventeen years old, and every one of them already carries a story like that.

Our parashah speaks to this too. Among its final commandments, Masei instructs the Israelites to establish arei miklat — cities of refuge. Places of safety, built on purpose, built by design, because the Torah understood something profound: a community cannot leave the safety of its most vulnerable to chance. Refuge must be constructed. Deliberately. In advance.

That is what Jewish camp is. Camp Harlam did not become a safe haven for Jewish kids by accident. Generations of our movement built it, brick by brick and song by song, so that there would be one place — at least one place — where a Jewish teenager never has to brace for the comment, never has to explain, never has to shrink.

But here is what moved me most about those Gesher teens. They were candid about the hard stuff, and then, without missing a beat, they went right back to planning their next activity, to arguing about which unit has the best cheer, to talking about the campers they couldn’t wait to lead. They have every excuse to be weary of Jewish life. Instead, they chose to spend their entire summer immersed in it, training to pass it on.

A city of refuge, it turns out, has a purpose beyond hiding. It’s where you refuel.

Here’s the third moment.

Every summer, Camp Harlam welcomes a mishlachat — a delegation of young Israeli staff members who bring Israel to the Poconos. This summer I had the chance to sit with them and listen to their stories.

A young woman named Nitzan told us about the weeks after October 7th. She spent them in Eilat, working with families who had been evacuated from the Gaza envelope — from the kibbutzim and towns that bore the worst of that day. She spent her days with children who had lost their homes, and some who had lost far more than that. She sat with them, played with them, helped them feel like children again, in hotel lobbies that had become a wilderness encampment of their own.

And now? Now she spends her summer in Kunkletown, Pennsylvania, teaching American Jewish kids Israeli dance and Hebrew songs. Having held so much grief, she chose to spend this chapter of her life creating joy.

I keep thinking about her name. Nitzan, in Hebrew, means a bud — a blossom. It comes from the biblical book,  Song of Songs: Hanitzanim niru va’aretz, et hazamir higia. “The blossoms have appeared in the land; the time of singing has come.”

A young woman named for the first sign that winter is ending — and that is precisely the work she does. In Eilat, and now at camp: appearing in the land after the coldest winter, announcing that the time of singing can come again.

So what ties these three moments together?

Those of you who have heard me preach about camp before know that everything at Harlam runs on seven middot — seven character traits, drawn from the Jewish spiritual practice of mussar, that teach campers how to become their best selves. There’s acharayut, thinking of others. Nitzachon, perseverance. Rachamim, compassion. Bitachon, confidence. Tiferet, finding inner beauty. Binah, seeking meaning. When a camper embodies one of these traits, a counselor might catch them in the act and award them a bracelet. I’ve stood on this bimah in years past and talked about these bracelets and some of these middot.

I just mentioned six of them. And the seventh — the very first one on camp’s list — is the one that every story I told you tonight has in common.

Simchah. Finding joy.

Pria and Joella, standing in a dark dining hall with no microphones, singing a worried camp into joy. The Gesher teens, who know exactly what the world can say to a Jewish kid, choosing a summer overflowing with Jewish life anyway. Nitzan, who carried the grief of the Gaza envelope in her arms, now teaching ten-year-olds to dance.

Some people hear “Jewish joy” and imagine something naive — a looking-away, a pretending. What I witnessed at camp this summer was the opposite of pretending. These young people know the darkness intimately. They lost the lights, literally and figuratively. And they sang anyway.

That is why simchah is a middah — a trait to be practiced, strengthened, built. Joy, in Jewish life, is a discipline. We construct it the way the Torah constructs cities of refuge: deliberately, in advance, because we know we will need it. 

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov, a man who knew profound personal darkness, taught: Mitzvah gedolah lihyot b’simchah tamid — it is a great mitzvah to be in joy, always. He didn’t teach that because life was easy. He taught it because life wasn’t.

Joy that survives a night without water is practice for joy that survives far worse. Our kids are getting that practice, every summer, at camp.

I want to leave you tonight with an important reminder. None of what I described happens by accident.

The song leaders, the middot bracelets, the safe haven where a Jewish teen can finally exhale, the Israeli counselor dancing with our kids — all of it exists because generations of Jews before us decided that camp was worth building, and worth sending their children to.

Now it’s our turn. So here is my ask:

If you have children — consider camp. I can tell you as a rabbi, and as a parent, there is no better investment in a joyful, confident Jewish identity than a summer in the machaneh.

If you have grandchildren or nieces and nephews — plant the seed. Gently. Mention it to their parents. A grandparent’s voice carries further than you know, and sometimes a grandparent’s generosity is what makes camp possible.

And to every single one of us: know that Rodeph Shalom has scholarship funds to help send our young people to camp. Cost should never be the reason a Jewish child misses this. Use those funds. Support those funds. Every dollar builds the refuge, and fills it with song.

The Torah ends the book of Numbers by lovingly recounting every place we ever camped, because our tradition has always known: the camping is where we became a people. It still is.

Shabbat Shalom.

162nd Confirmation Service D’var Torah

162nd Confirmation at Congregation Rodeph Shalom
Sunday, May 17, 2026

D’var Torah by the Confirmands

Zoe Levenstien

Today we read Sh’mot, or Exodus, chapter 20, traditionally read during Shavuot. Not only is Shavuot a triumphant end to the counting of the Omer, more importantly it commemorates the day the Israelites accepted the Ten Commandments at Mount Sinai. You may know a few of these commandments already: “Thou shalt not kill” “Thou shalt not steal” “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor” – things that seem obvious to any decent person. The word “commandment” evokes something that we must do for somebody else or a higher power. Traditionally, we think of commandments as a one way communication from God to God’s people. Although the Ten Commandments provide the gift of a morally-sound roadmap, it still seems awfully one-sided. Is there another way to think about this monumental moment? I was interested to learn about a midrash that frames the Ten commandments as more of a brit, or a contract. Picture those ancient tablets. How do you envision the arrangement of the commandments? You are probably thinking of commandments 1-5 on one side and 6-10 on the other. But according to Rabbi Ishmael, the tablets have commandments 1-10 repeated on both sides. One copy for God and one copy for us. Like a contract! A contract that means that both parties are obligated to work together. This signals to us that the Ten Commandments are actually about being in an active relationship with God, not just following some archaic rules. 

We recognized that the same active, two-way relationship exists between us and our parents. At first glance, it seems the parents are the only ones bestowing knowledge onto their children and showing them the correct way to live a meaningful life. L’dor V’dor – parents passing on what they had learned from their parents, from generation to generation. As a confirmation class, we really liked this idea of recognizing how much our parents and the wider Rodeph Shalom community has passed down to us, but we also want to acknowledge, that like a Breit or a complex child-parent relationship, we were able to give something as well. 

We have seen this play out in our own lives at Rodeph Shalom.

Elana Maser

Coming to Rodeph Shalom was arguably one of the best things to ever happen to me. After having the random desire to attend Hebrew school in the beginning of the 3rd grade and visiting some of my options, I picked Rodeph Shalom based off its gorgeous sanctuary (even with my mom’s slight push to attend somewhere closer to home) . I am forever grateful for this decision as it truly changed my life for the better. I was immediately welcomed with open arms by all of my teachers and classmates. Every Sunday, I was excited to come to this place where I would see my friends and sing songs with fun gestures in the sanctuary. As I got older and the question of if I should stay or not after bat mitzvah came up, it wasn’t even a question, and this wasn’t just because of the candy room or the bagels every morning. This was because Rodeph Shalom ignited a love within me for Judaism. A love that made me genuinely want to wake up early every Sunday, which is no small feat. 

I can confidently say I would not be the person I am today without Rodeph Shalom and the incredible opportunities it has provided me: not only making me a stronger Jew, but also a leader, friend, and person. I remember in 8th grade attending my first NFTY event with Rodeph Shalom at Camp Harlam. At this event I met so many amazing people from all different areas. We held such meaningful conversations and made such amazing memories that I cried the whole bus ride home and refused to take off my NFTY sweatshirt for 2 days. This event opened me up to the amazing world of Jewish Youth Organizations, in which I quickly became involved. Since then, I have engaged in BBYO, helping re-build the Philadelphia Chapter serving on board for the past 4 years, I have played in the Maccabi games every summer since 2022, I completed the Diller Teen Fellowship as a part of Cohort 8, and I was a Stand With Us Leventhal Intern this past year. None of this would have been possible without the constant support of Rodeph Shalom. Rodeph Shalom has made me fall in love with my Judaism over and over again, constantly introducing me to new perspectives and communities through which I can express it and supporting me throughout my own personal journey. 

In Moses’ final words to his people before they enter the promised land, he leaves them with the phrase “That you may long endure on the land that your God Adonai is assigning to you.” Rodeph Shalom has instilled a passion within me to “long endure” my Judaism in all aspects of my life while simultaneously introducing me to the beauty of my Judaism as it is “assigned to me,” helping me construct my own perspectives and identity. 

I am so lucky and forever grateful that little me made the choice to attend here, as it truly changed my life for the better. Rodeph Shalom has made me love my Judaism. It has introduced me to the Jewish community which I have learned to know and love. And ultimately, it has sparked a passion within me to forever endure my Judaism in the beauty of which it has been assigned to me.

Jeremy Landau

Being at Rodeph Shalom has also been hugely influential for me, and has changed the course of my life. When I started at Berkman Mercaz Limud in 1st grade, I knew that I loved Judaism. I remember racing with another student to see which of us could write our Hebrew names faster—I won. And that love has only deepened with each passing year. I am fascinated by the stories of the Tanakh, where by analyzing each word, I am able to gain a greater understanding of one of our sacred texts. I even have a favorite antediluvian biblical figure—it’s Methuselah. I have a passion for learning about the history of our people, and as a madrich for 5th and 6th grade for the past two years, I have been able to pass down that love to the children of Rodeph Shalom. 

Over the summer, I spent many of my Wednesday mornings volunteering at Breaking Bread on Broad. There, I helped to restock food and hand out produce to struggling neighbors. In doing this, I realized that the synagogue serves as both a house of worship and a place of refuge. Regardless of their affiliation with Judaism, people go to Breaking Bread on Broad for assistance, and we welcome them in with open arms. I saw many of the same guests every week, and while most spoke only Mandarin or Spanish, we were connected by the universal language of food. The language barrier was not a disadvantage, but an opportunity to communicate through hand motions and smiles. Rodeph Shalom’s vision statement is “We Create Profound Connections”—and that’s exactly what we were doing.

Rodeph Shalom is also where I learned about Camp Harlam when I was 7 years old. I went there as a camper for eight years, and I am going back as a counselor this summer for the Rishonim unit, which is made up of first-time campers. Rishonim means “the first ones” in Hebrew. I did that program when I was their age, and as their counselor, I will get to show them everything I love about camp, teaching them things that I learned from my counselors.

At the foot of Mount Sinai, Moses tells the Jewish people that God shows “kindness to the thousandth generation of those who love Me and and keep My commandments.” I want to continue to be a link in the chain of the Jewish people, and help to cultivate that “thousandth generation.” Although I don’t yet fully know what I want to do in my career, I have been thinking a lot about becoming a rabbi, and it is my experience growing up in Congregation Rodeph Shalom and the greater Reform Jewish community that has helped me find this path.

Pria Maderer Lipkin

L’dor v’dor, from generation to generation, goes both ways.  As our Jewish community has influenced us, we also have had an impact on our Jewish community. 

My time as a madricha has looked a little different from my peers. I find holiness, and my personal spirituality, through Jewish music and song. Inspired by musical leaders before me, I wanted to give the next generation access to the same music I grew up on. With that goal in mind, I worked with Jennifer to create this unique position where I was able to teach multiple age groups. As I look out to you all, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude for having the privilege and honor to sing with a lot of you. 

As Zoe beautifully spoke about, I resonate with the idea of the Ten Commandments as a contract. One side for me, one for my students. While teaching music, I’ve noticed some of the younger kids adapting some of my little quirks. Me being the drama kid that I am, I finish some songs in a dramatic fashion. When I would do a big fun ending to a song, my Kindergarten and Pre-K students would replicate it. Sometimes, I didn’t even realize I was doing it until they did it back to me. I loved the bit so much that I added the dramatic ending to how I taught the song. Stay tuned and we will try it together in a few minutes. My side of the contract, my love for music, influenced their side, their interaction with that music. This replication extends to my leadership. We start every morning with Modeh Ani, a prayer of gratitude, and as we sing the song, we do morning stretches. One day, early in my songleading here, a student asked to lead alongside me. Without thinking much of it, I welcomed them up and made sure their hands were going the right way (mirroring is a hard concept to understand at 5). Since that day, I have picked two new students each week to do the stretches upfront with me. These kids weren’t only participating each week, they were actively leading their peers. I feel so lucky to have been able to see a glimpse of that leadership in all of you during my short time teaching. I can’t wait to see you all grow into that leadership, in whatever way you find meaningful. 

Delilah Forman 

I have been coming to Rodeph Shalom ever since the first grade. During this time, I have always had a slight pressure put on me that most kids who come here don’t feel. My mother Sharon, one of the third grade teachers, has conveniently worked here as long as I can remember. This made the travels coming here easier, but this is not all that kept my push to keep coming and continue my Jewish education. I fell in love with the community, made amazing friends along the way, and I hope I was able to become that motivation for some of the younger kids now. When I was younger, I looked up to the older kids and madrichim. I thought they were super cool and I wanted to do what they did. 

My time as a madricha has been amazing, spending time with first and second graders really has been such a fun experience. To the second graders in my class, I really hope you continue to stick with Berkman Mercaz Limud. You will meet life long friends and learn to cherish Jewish values, similar to those that I have learned to cherish. I hope to be that motivation to you to continue your time here and maybe continue the passing along of that slight bit of motivation (L’dor vador). 

I’ve learned throughout my time here that being Jewish is really such a big part of my identity. Furthermore, I feel as though Shabbat and High Holiday services also played a large role in the impact I am leaving here at RS. Coincidentally on theme, the celebration of L’cha Dodi, arguably the best part of the service, has stuck out to me the most. It’s funny how when I was thinking back at what I was going to talk about today, I realized how I always end up dancing around, holding hands with younger kids. I hope that my presence here as an older kid leaves a lasting impression to keep them coming not just to services, but to also stay involved with Jewish learning at Rodeph Shalom.

Elle Felderman

As we conclude, in the spirit of L’dor V’dor, we recognize that the connections we build go both ways. To everyone who has impacted us, and who has given us the opportunity to make an impact in return, we are truly grateful. We thank our parents, our families, our clergy, our teachers, and our community for guiding us, supporting us, and inspiring us along the way. We hope to carry these values forward and continue this chain together for generations to come.

Rabbi Bill Kuhn Sermon: May 8, 2026

I don’t know if you’ve heard that this year we are celebrating the 250th anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence in Philadelphia at Independence Hall, just around the corner from here.  At the signing of the Declaration, the Liberty Bell was rung, pealing with sounds of joy and jubilation.  The Liberty Bell became the iconic symbol of the United States along with the American Flag and the Statue of Liberty.

Inscribed on the Liberty Bell are words from this week’s Torah Portion “Behar” in the Book of Vayikra, Leviticus 25:10.  :   “K’ratem d’ror ba’aretz l’col yosh-veh-ha

“Proclaim liberty throughout the land for all the inhabitants thereof.”

A little known fact is that the Assembly of the Province of Pennsylvania ordered the bell in 1751 to commemorate the 50th anniversary of William Penn’s “Charter of Privileges” which recognized religious liberty in 1701, which was 75 years before the Declaration Of Independence and the birth of our nation.

As Jews, we can feel a great deal of pride that our sacred text has served as an inspiration to the founders of the USA.  Not only for the verse in Leviticus on the Liberty Bell, but for the very foundation of the most important concept in American history:  [from the Declaration of Independence]:  “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”  [Can we please agree that the founders meant to say “All human beings are created equal?”  Thank you].

So now, on the 250th anniversary of those words, let us consider their true meaning and their connection to Judaism

Up until this point in history, laws were considered to come from the monarchy in nations, empires such as Great Britain.  The Anglican Church of England was considered their true religion, and those who dissented were harassed and many left for America, such as the Quakers in Philadelphia, and the Puritans in Boston.  The monarch, vested by the power of the Church of England had the power to make and enforce laws.

The founding of the United States saw a radical change from this concept.  “The founders were rejecting the idea fundamental in the British system, that there were certain hereditary social classes, beginning with royalty and aristocracy that had more rights than other classes.” [Isaacson].

We believe the power to govern must come from the people.  Thus the opening words of the Preamble to our Constitution, “We the People in order to create a more perfect union…”  signifying that the US government derives its power directly from its citizens.

Where did our founders learn this?  As Abraham Lincoln said in his immortal Gettysburg Address: “[The founders] brought forth on this continent a new nation conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.”  Where does this concept originate?  I believe they were inspired by another foundational verse in our Torah, B’reishit (Genesis) 1:27;  “God created the human being in “B’tzelem Elohim” in the image of God;  in God’s image did God create the human; male and female God created them.  And God blessed them.”

When Thomas Jefferson, Ben Franklin and John Adams wrote the Declaration Of Independence, they wrote the words: “all men are created equal.” And they were inspired and guided by our Torah’s verse “all people are created B’tzelem Elohim – in God’s image.”

Well, what took so long?  The Torah has been around for millennia, but it was not until 1776 that the concept of treating all human beings as equal was placed into the most important document in American history.  What took so long?  Well that’s the topic for another sermon.  But as Jews and as Americans we are grateful that this concept is the very foundation of our nation.  However, we know that while these lofty words are the vision statement of the USA, they were not true in 1776, and we are still grappling with them today.

William Penn’s Charter of Privileges in 1701 was the inspiration for choosing the verse from our Torah Portion to be inscribed on the Liberty Bell.  But Penn’s document declared religious freedom as its basic tenet.  In fact, one of the main reasons people immigrated to America was for religious freedom.  But Penn’s document did not outlaw slavery.  Even so, Quakers in PA were among the leaders of the abolitionist movement, and in 1780 Pennsylvania passed a law providing for gradual emancipation.

Even though Jefferson was the principal author of the DOI he still owned more than 600 enslaved people.  He claimed to hate slavery.  In fact in his original draft of the DOI, he called the slave trade “a cruel war against human nature.”  He called slavery a “moral depravity and a hideous blot.”  But he knew that the DOI and later the Constitution would never have passed if they had outlawed slavery.

The founders did have the moral gravity to know that this would have to change eventually, so the genius of the Constitution is that it contains the means by which to correct errors – through the process of amendments, and the ballot box.  As egregious a sin as was the outrage of slavery, the framers of the Constitution wrote into law ways to end this “hideous blot” from our nation.

Why do people continue to do what they know to be wrong?  This is the quintessential question of Judaism on Yom Kippur (actually on every day of our lives) we go through the process of  “cheshbon ha nefesh”  we take an accounting of our soul.  And we try to go through the process of “tshuva” repentance, atonement, returning to our true selves.  Wiping the slate clean.

This is the true connection between our verse in this week’s Torah Portion and the Liberty Bell, the Declaration Of Independence, the Constitution, and the soul of America.  When we examine our verse, we see that the “Jubilee Year” the 50th year, we are commanded to sound the Shofar on Yom Kippur within that 50th year.  And on that year “You shall proclaim “release” throughout the land for all the inhabitants thereof.  It shall be a Jubilee Year.”

The Hebrew word for “Jubilee” here is “Yoveil” which means “rams horn” which we sound on the High Holy Days, the Days of Repentance.  According to Rashi, the great commentator, ”Release” means to proclaim liberty to slaves.

The Quakers who chose this verse to be on the Old Bell in 1751 knew exactly what they were doing.  They were perhaps the strongest opponents of slavery and became the leaders of the abolitionist movement in America.  And they were the ones who changed the name the Old Bell to the Liberty Bell, which they used frequently to symbolize their cause.

Ben Franklin, perhaps the most famous Philadelphian of all time, (with the possible exception of Pat, King of Cheesesteaks!), took up the moral crusade of abolition.  In 1787 Franklin became the President Of the PA Society for the Promoting of Abolition of Slavery.  And in 1790 he presented a formal abolition petition to Congress, saying “mankind are all formed by the same Almighty Being, alike objects of his care, and equally designed for the enjoyment of happiness.”  He said the duty of Congress was to secure “the blessings of liberty to the People of the US without distinction of color.”

Franklin and his petition were roundly denounced by the defenders of slavery, and as we know, it took many more years, and the bloody Civil War before the 13th Amendment was ratified in 1865, formally abolishing slavery across our nation.

The struggle for liberty did not end there as it continued for many more years.  In 1963, in his “I have a Dream” speech delivered on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. invoked the words from Leviticus on the liberty Bell with his declaration “Let freedom ring,” praying for the day when freedom would ring throughout this land.

King also said, “The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.”  “But it did not bend itself.  It was and remains a constant struggle to make the phrase “all men are created equal” truly inclusive.” [Isaacson]

Too often today, I hear so much pessimism about our country.   People describe the state of our nation as dark and fraught.  But a careful reading of our history, and especially the Jewish inspiration found in our Declaration Of Independence and Constitution,  can only give us hope.  The founders made sure there would always be ways to correct any extreme.  They built a system in which the pendulum would always swing from one point of view to another, until one day, God willing, we will all understand why this great nation was founded 250 years ago, and why it is still necessary.

Lincoln exhorted the assembly at Gettysburg to never be complacent.  “It is rather for us to be dedicated to the great task remaining before us…that we here highly resolve to have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people, by the people and for the people, shall not perish from the earth.”

AMEN.

MATERIAL GATHERED FROM:

Jewish Roots of American Liberty, Wilfred McClay and Stuart Halpern, Encounter Books, New York, 2025.

Benjamin Franklin, An American Life, Walter Isaacson, Simon & Schuster, New York, 2003.

The Greatest Sentence Ever Written, Walter Isaacson, Simon & Schuster, New York, 2025.

Leviticus 25:9-10.     Rashi Commentary of Lev. 25:10.     Genesis 1:27.    “Gettysburg Address” Abraham Lincoln 1863.

 

 

 

Rabbi Jill Maderer: In the Wake of the Dismantling of the President’s House Slavery Exhibit and on this International Holocaust Remembrance Day

Today, International Holocaust Remembrance Day*, offers a powerful time to remember: Last week’s dismantling of the President’s House slavery exhibit by the Trump Administration takes a page from the Nazis’ book of tactics to rewrite history and suppress the truth.

The site where George Washington illegally held nine people in bondage, located just across the green where the Weitzman National Museum of Jewish History houses Washington’s letter to the Jews of Newport proclaiming that this new nation would give “to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance” hauntingly demonstrates the complexity of our first president and the injustice of any telling of history that erases the truths of slavery. Burying complicated and problematic truths is not a new strategy of authoritarianism.

In the pursuit of dehumanization of Jews as well as other persecuted groups, Nazi master of propaganda Joseph Goebbels sought to shape attitudes by replacing historical evidence with a false narrative.

Having born witness to Nazi propaganda, political thinker Hannah Arendt wrote: “The result of a consistent and total substitution of lies for factual truth is not that the lie will now be accepted as truth and truth be defamed as a lie, but that the sense by which we take our bearings in the real world—and the category of truth versus falsehood is among the mental means to this end—is being destroyed” (https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1967/02/25/truth-and-politics).

To destroy the category of truth versus falsehood, this Administration’s National Park Service is not the first to fabricate history with the use of memorials. The Nazis too distorted history by tearing down or disappearing historical monuments that complicated their image with uncomfortable truths.

With this strategy, public space and architecture became a tool for recasting figures of the past.

SUNY Buffalo professor of architecture Despina Stratigakos explores how power and ideology function in architecture in her research of memorials desecrated by the Nazis. On August 12, 1940, Nazi Field Marshal Wilhelm Keitel ordered Germany’s Army High Command in occupied Belgium and France to destroy World War I memorials that honored civilians massacred by the Germans, because Hitler believed those memorials defamed Germany with blame. Army units in other occupied districts were ordered to survey their areas to eliminate monuments and dismantle their inscription panels. In 1940, the Nazis removed the 1924 Monument to the Heroes of the Black Army in Reims, France that had been dedicated to the West African colonial troops who defended the city against a German attack in 1918. (https://www.architectmagazine.com/design/culture/the-invasion-of-memory-hitlers-attempt-to-rewrite-the-history-of-world-war-i_o)

The leaders in the current Administration are not Nazis and there is no fair comparison to Hitler. And when strategies of tyranny shared by fascists in other eras are mirrored in our own time, we cannot avert our eyes; we need to recognize and be able to say we have seen this before.

Hitler did not like the way WWI history made him feel, the responsibility it implied, or the reputation it projected to the world, so he sought to fabricate history and distort memory. The Administration does not like the way our nation’s history of slavery makes them feel, the responsibility to African Americans it implies, or the reputation it projects to the world, so it seeks to fabricate history and distort memory.

Tyrants rely on lies, fear, and dehumanization to coerce society to comply. Our Jewish community across the world is now reading from the Torah our People’s story of resistance and moral courage. In the Exodus story, the midwives Shifrah and Puah, who birth Moses, defy Pharaoh’s decree to kill all of the Israelite baby boys. Torah teaches us their courage is rooted in their fear of God. Indeed, they refuse to serve Pharaoh; they fear God and only God. Without the tool of fear, Pharaoh has little power over them.

Lies, fear, and dehumanization are the authoritarians’ sharpest weapons of tyranny. May truth, courage and humanization be our citizens’ sharpest tools for resistance. And as we remember the horrors of the Holocaust, let us remember its lessons for our own Nation as well.

*The date of International Holocaust Remembrance Day, designated by the UN, was selected to mark the liberation of Auschwitz. The date of Yom HaShoah, Holocaust Remembrance Day on the Jewish calendar of sacred days, was selected to mark the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising.

RS Security Update 6/11/2025

Congregation Rodeph Shalom, as a community, has been working together over the past several years to strike the right balance between increased protection and maintaining the openness and welcome that is our core value.

The world and times we live in present us with a challenging security environment which includes both old and new threats. While there are high levels of concern and increased vigilance, there are no specific credible threats directed towards Rodeph Shalom, other Jewish organizations, schools, or daycare centers in the Philadelphia metro area.

We maintain direct, close, and active ties with law enforcement and homeland security organizations. These include the Philadelphia Police Department; Philadelphia School Police; the FBI; the regional Homeland Security fusion center (Delaware Valley Intelligence Center or DVIC) which brings together local, state, regional, and federal law enforcement agencies; the Pennsylvania State Police; and others.

Rodeph Shalom regularly participates in security briefings by government security agencies on how conditions in the U.S., internationally, and in Israel might affect Jewish organizations in our region and which mitigation steps to consider, given those conditions. We are informed in real time of any potential threats identified by law enforcement or intelligence services through direct communications from Philadelphia Police, the DVIC, FBI, Philadelphia School Police, or Pennsylvania State Police. These notices include providing us with awareness of nearby police activity, or other situations that could affect the Rodeph Shalom community, allowing us to better prepare, as needed.

In addition to these law enforcement channels, we receive briefings, intelligence, and security advice from the Jewish Federation, and input from our security consultants.

Rodeph Shalom maintains a close relationship with the Philadelphia Police Department (PPD), at several levels. Armed police officers are at Rodeph Shalom during services and high-profile events, in addition to our security team, which includes off-duty members of law enforcement. The police response time, in case of a dangerous situation here, is between one to two minutes. We maintain direct personal communications with PPD leadership to increase the depth and breadth of our interactions and coordination. As a result, PPD officers frequently drive by or remain near our building on a daily basis.

Our building is equipped with a number of security features which, combined with our security procedures, provide multiple layers of protection that are not made public. There are both active and passive measures for security, much of it funded by significant Federal and State security grants. On the personnel side, in addition to the security guard at the front desk, a security role is performed by additional staff members, and our security team. We regularly conduct security training and drills, as well as fire drills, to help staff be better prepared to handle emergencies. We are grateful to Renee Carl, Director of Operations, for her essential work and dedication to safety.

One of the most important protections is for everyone to remain vigilant, aware of their surroundings, proactive in protecting our people and facility, and to fully cooperate with important security measures. This includes not allowing “tailgating” through external doors or holding the door for strangers to enter, never sharing access fobs, promptly reporting lost fobs, and reporting suspicious or unusual conditions immediately to our security staff. These actions play a key role in helping to keep our facility and our people secure.

As we continue to enhance our risk mitigation and security measures, we encourage everyone’s support for a more secure community, while living our long tradition of welcoming the stranger and provide assistance to those who need it. We have shown, as a community, that we can do both.

Contact Director of Operations Renee Carl or Executive Director Josh Laster for more information.

Rabbi Emeritus Alan Fuchs Yizkor Sermon 5784

Sixty nine years ago, in 1954, I was elected by my high school class to give the address for the class at our graduation ceremony. That was a mere nine years after the end of World War 2. We all were well aware that the war had ended because of our use of the atomic bomb. The beginning of the cold war with Russia might be traced to the Berlin Blockade in 1948.  We knew that the United States and the USSR lived with the constant threat of mutual destruction. The Korean War was raging during our high school years. This was the world we faced when we graduated high school.

I no longer have a copy of my graduation speech. However, I have never forgotten my opening line, delivered to a class, looking to an unknown future, but having been born and raised in a world of terrible destruction and constant threat. These were my words, “someday, far into the future, a worldly gracious sun will rise over a world already bathed in the light of peace.” I wanted to give my classmates hope that what lay ahead for them would be better than the lives their parents had to survive of depression and war., or their present world of war and the threat of nuclear disaster.

In 1963, Martin Luther King delivered his famous “I Have a Dream” speech from the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C. “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today.”

This is my sixtieth observance of Yom Kippur since being ordained as a rabbi, six decades of delivering sermons and of leading or participating in worship. Every Yom Kippur, I stand before an open ark and listen to the painful and emotional sound and words of Avinu Malkeinu. I pray – halt the onslaught of sickness, violence and hunger; halt the reign of those who cause pain and terror.  Every Yom Kippur, I repeat over and over, al cheit shechatanu – for the sin we have committed. We are guilty of dozens of sins – each year, every year – we return, we plead for help and we find that the sin never seems to be resolved. Once again, this year, as every year, – Avinu Malkeinu, our father, our king, al cheit shechetanu – for the sin we have committed.

We are about to enter the Yizkor service. Yizkor is a time of memory, a time of reflection. I reflect on the meaning of those words I have been saying for sixty years and more. We confess we attempt to climb steps to holiness. We seek forgiveness. And then I remember – I remember my graduation speech and I remember the words of Martin Luther King. For me, the greatest sin we have committed is that the hope of my graduation speech and the dream of Martin Luther King are still just that – hopes and dreams.  We have failed to bring about a world in which we can be at peace, and the children of every black person in this country are still judged by the color of their skin. Al cheit shechatanu – for the sins we have committed.

So I speak to my grandchildren who are not with me today. They are building their own lives, in marriage, in work, in college. I want to hold them and cry with them and tell them I am sorry I am not leaving a better world for them. That will not do. That will not guarantee to them a life that is filled with meaning and love and safety and unlimited opportunity and peace. Beating my breast and pleading for help to a god that may or may not be there to listen will not give them the world and the life they deserve – or even give them life at all.  No – that will not do.

So I share with you my sense of despair, but I want them to know that I do not surrender, that I will not allow what I see as the threats to their lives and their future to go unanswered.  We seem to live in two worlds. One is a world in which human life is to be manipulated so that some can gain power at whatever the cost. The other is the world which this congregation represents, where our history drives us – a world in which our sacred texts speak to us with a clear message – if  you want to save human life from itself, if you want your children and your grandchildren to not just survive but to thrive, then your task is clear and we will show you the way.

 The first attempt of the destruction of our people was by the Pharaoh of ancient Egypt. He decreed that every first born son of the people of Israel was to be put to death. His goal was genocide. Over the centuries, we have experienced almost every form of human degradation, torture and death. Auschwitz and the Holocaust were the twentieth century’s version of “let us kill the Jews.” It has been a popular cry for centuries and is still heard today. But we are here. We survive. I would like to change the English pronunciation of the name of this sacred day to the day of atonement, the day when we do not just say al cheit, but a day when we pledge to each other that we will join together to bring to this world the values that have kept us alive. During the Unetaneh Tokef prayer is a phrase from the Book of Kings – vekol d’mamah dake yishama – a still small voice is heard. That quotation refers to moment in the life of the prophet Elijah. He was fleeing from King Ahab and he found a cave where he hid. He asked god to take his life in despair. God commanded him to come out of the cave and stand on a mountaintop. A strong wind passed him, then an earthquake, and then a fire. God was in none of these. Then a still small voice. That is the voice of our history. It is the voice to which we must listen.

That voice does not speak to us only of our own survival. The Book of Job struggles with question of human suffering.  Job demands a dialogue with god to know why he and innocent people face terrible tragedy. Job is being tested by a bet that he will continue to believe even in the face of the loss of his family. God refuses to meet him. But he challenges Job with the argument that Job dare blame a universe he cannot fully understand. Implicit in that challenge is the question – why do you think that there is some force beyond yourself that is intentionally causing you the loss of your family and personal pain. Perhaps Job’s friends are correct – look within, job. There you may find the answer. A midrash speaks about the creation. God says to Adam – I have created many worlds and destroyed them because I was not satisfied. I now have created this one. It now is your hands. If you destroy it there will be no more. Yet – even with all of our scientific knowledge, even with our understanding of astronomy and physics and earth science, there are those who believe that there is some force beyond human life that is destroying this earth and that we have little or no control. It is only one of the latest examples of belief without evidence, or rather, belief in spite of evidence.  Dramatic heat, flooding, melting ice, rising water temperatures do not convince. Look within, Job. We have a responsibility to change this dynamic and to save this earth.

This congregation proudly represents the diversity of human life. That diversity is under attack in ways that i have not seen in my lifetime. Women are being denied the right to be responsible for their own bodies and receive necessary medical care. Racial history is being banned, teachers and doctors are being told it is illegal to give assistance to those dealing with issues of sexual orientation, gerrymandering is threatening the voting rights of minorities, immigrants are dying at the border – and all of this is coming from government officials who are claiming to speak in the name of American exceptionalism and biblical morality. We cannot allow this blatant political interference in human rights and human behavior.  We cannot leave unanswered claims about religious values that are absolutely contrary to the sacred texts we hold dear.

Underlying all of this is an attack on the truth that is threatening the very existence of our democracy, freedom in Israel and peace in the world. Millions in this country believe that an overwhelming election somehow was stolen, that our judicial system is corrupt and that minorities are destroying white privilege. An Israeli right wing minority is demeaning the legitimacy of their court and Russians are being told that the Ukrainians are Nazis and terrorists. Joseph Goebbels and Adolf Hitler set the standard – “If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people eventually will come to believe it.” The prophet Amos lived in the northern kingdom of Israel in the 8th century B.C.E. during the reign of Jereboam. Amos was not happy with the behavior of his people, religiously and morally. He told them that their god was going to punish them, but at the same time, he made this promise: “I will restore my people Israel. They shall rebuild ruined cities and inhabit them. They shall plant vineyards and drink their wine. They shall till gardens and eat their fruit. And I will plant them upon their soil, nevermore to be uprooted from the soil I have given them.” We must not view that soil only as physical. The soil we have been given is moral – it is the soil from which the prophets of Israel spoke. It may be a miracle that we Jews have survived. When the Zionist dream became a reality and the state of Israel was born many saw that moment as final fulfillment of a dream.  We dare not accept that view of our history. It was only the beginning. We are with Moses at the Burning Bush. When called, he responded, here I am. We are there when God tested Abraham, and he answered, hineni – here I am. We are with the prophet Isaiah when he heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send?” And he responded, “here I am, send me.” We are Israel – to fight not with weapons of war, but with instruments of peace and justice and caring – to lift up the widow and the stranger and the orphan and the poor, to care for this Earth, to protect our freedom and promote the truth wherever that may take us.

The fifty-six signers of the declaration of independence showed us the way with these words – “we mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.” It is a pledge we the people of Israel made at Sinai when we responded, naaseh v’nishma – we will do and we will listen. It is our commitment to our children and our grandchildren and to future generations. In the words the prophet Micah – to act justly, to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. 

We no longer will stand helpless while our neighbor bleeds. Together we shall challenge amoral and immoral authority. Together we shall challenge injustice. Together we shall right the wrongs that threaten this earth. Together we shall offer hope where there is despair and love where there is hate. Together we shall listen to the voice. Together we shall say to my grandchildren – here we are, send us.

 

 

        

           

 

Rabbi Freedman Yom Kippur Sermon: Judging Others

A story from the Talmud (Shabbat 127b):

There once was a worker who had just completed a very large project for a certain homeowner. On the eve of Yom Kippur, the worker said to the homeowner, “Give me my wages, so I may go and feed my family.”

The homeowner said, “I have no money.” The worker then asked for the wages in the form of land. The homeowner said, “I have none.” Animals? None. Cushions and blankets? None. Exhausted, the worker left empty handed. 

After the festival of Sukkot, the homeowner took the worker’s wages in hand, along with a burden of food and gifts that required three donkeys and went to the worker’s home. After they ate and conversed, the homeowner paid the worker. The homeowner then asked the worker, “When I said that I had no money, weren’t you suspicious that I was trying to avoid paying you?” 

The worker answered, “I thought that perhaps the opportunity to purchase merchandise inexpensively presented itself, and you purchased it with the money that you owed me, and therefore you had no money available.”

The homeowner then asked, “And when I said that I have no land, weren’t you suspicious?” The worker answered, “I thought that perhaps the land is leased to others, and you cannot take the land from the lessees.” Animals? Perhaps the animals are hired to others. Cushions or blankets? Perhaps all your property was consecrated to Heaven and therefore you had nothing available at the moment. 

The homeowner then said to the worker: I swear that is the truth. I had no money available at the time because I vowed and consecrated all my property to the Temple. And when I came to the Sages, they dissolved all my vows and I immediately came here. 

As the homeowner departed, he left the worker with this blessing, “As you judged favorably, so may God judge you favorably.”

In this season of judgment, when we symbolically stand before God, our tradition reminds us to assume the best. We pray that God’s attribute of mercy will outway the attribute of strict judgment and we pray that our mercy will prevail over our own strict judgment. While the worker in our story takes this to an extreme, our sacred texts repeatedly remind us to give others the benefit of the doubt: In Pirkei Avot we read, “Do not judge your fellow until you have reached their place…” and, “judge all people with the scale weighted in their favor.” 

This afternoon, we will read from Leviticus 19, The Holiness Code, which includes our most important moral and ethical guidelines, such as the “Golden Rule”: V’ahavta l’rei’echa camocha/Love your neighbor as yourself.

This commandment is the foundation for judging others favorably. Love your neighbor is about empathy and seeking to see ourselves in the other person. We want to be given the benefit of the doubt, right? We want to be shown mercy, in this hour when our lives are metaphorically in the balance? When we see ourselves in another person, we not only cut them some slack, but we also begin our own cheshbon hanefesh/accounting of our soul.

The Baal Shem Tov (the founder of the chassidic movement) taught, “The world is a mirror; the faults you see in others are your own.” Or to put it in more contemporary language:

It’s me, hi

I’m the problem, it’s me

At teatime, everybody agrees

I’ll stare directly at the sun, but never in the mirror

It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero”

(Taylor Swift, “Anti-Hero”)

(I like Taylor’s version more). The Baal Shem Tov and Taylor Swift are saying essentially the same thing: the first step of teshuva is admitting that the faults we see in others may actually be our own. It can be difficult to see our own shortcomings, but it is essential if we want to grow as individuals.

When we judge others, we are often projecting our own insecurities and fears onto them. We may see in them the things that we dislike about ourselves, but are afraid to admit. When we see something we dislike in another person, it is an opportunity to learn more about ourselves. We can ask ourselves: “Why does this bother me so much? Is it because I have a similar flaw that I am trying to hide from myself?”

Maybe the worker had issues with paying bills as well and had the empathy to not immediately assume the worst of the homeowner. Generally, we give ourselves the benefit of the doubt, but rarely extend that same level of consideration to others.

A car just cut me off? I immediately assume this person is a selfish, unthoughtful jerk who thinks that they are more important than everyone else on the road. 

A friend didn’t text me back? I immediately assume they are not responding because they are offended by something I said. My spouse didn’t do the dishes after they said they would. I immediately assume they are lazy and not sharing in the household responsibilities. 

When we fail to look in the mirror, when we fail to see our own faults in others, when we assume the best of ourselves but the worst of others, we fail to love our neighbor as ourselves. To love my neighbor as myself I need to cut my neighbor some slack like I do for myself.

Rabbi Elka Abrahamson, in a keynote address on “The Art of Civil Discourse”, talks about the concept of motive asymmetry, “the phenomenon of assuming that your ideology, your position, is based in love, but your opponents’ ideology is based in hate.” So often, we paint ourselves as the “hero” and others as the “villain,” assuming their motives are nefarious while ours are pure and just. 

But we can never fully know what another person is thinking or feeling. To truly love your neighbor and disavow motive asymmetry requires humility. It requires us to begin from a position of curiosity rather than certainty. Loving your neighbor means having the humility to stand in another person’s shoes. Loving your neighbor is believing that there is another perspective unknown to us. 

What would happen if we all could be a little more like the worker in the Talmud story; giving others the same benefit of the doubt that we give ourselves? What would we need to do in order to reach this level of judging positively? If we could stop, take a moment of humility, and assume others are trying their best and bringing the same positive intentions as us, we might be able to look in the mirror and see the situation differently.

A car just cut me off? Assume the best; they didn’t notice me in their blind spot. And then look in the mirror; “I’ve probably done that a bunch before, maybe I should be more mindful when I drive (which is really hard with screaming children in the backseat).”

A friend didn’t text me back? Assume the best; they have a lot going on right now. Look in the mirror; “I’ve definitely forgotten to get back to people and it doesn’t feel great. I want to be more mindful this year when others reach out to me.”

My spouse didn’t do the dishes after they said they would. Assume the best; they must have forgotten or just been exhausted after spending hours putting the kids to bed. Look in the mirror; “I’m the worst at household chores and never get them done why I say I will. I need to make sure I am doing my share as well.”

Imagine if both partners in a relationship assumed that they needed to bring a little more support than they did yesterday? When we lead with humility, we realize that we can’t be perfect in our assessments of others, so we might as well be generous. It’s a more positive way to live; to not walk around huffing at people all the time letting their mistakes bring us down. And then we go a step further and look in that mirror and acknowledge that the faults we see in others may be our own; only then can we begin to grow. Only then can we break free of motive asymmetry. Only then can we love our neighbor as ourselves. 

As with most Jewish teachings, we also need balance in our approach to judging others. The 11th century sage, Maimonides, writes that “judge every person favorably” only applies to those who we know to be righteous or to people whose character is unknown to us. If, however, we know that someone is wicked, then Maimonides gives us permission to protect ourselves.

In the case of the abuser, we do not need to assume the best. Yes, there is always room for teshuva in Judaism, but our tradition makes clear that we do not need to search for the good in someone who intentionally and repeatedly hurts us. In that case, it’s the abuser’s responsibility to right the wrongs.

Shortly after the start of the #MeToo movement, in response to society repeatedly insisting that abusers who have contributed to society get a pass, Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg wrote:

“Society can’t make the determination about when a perpetrator has done sufficient t’shuvah, and the people who stand to earn money from enabling their “redemption” can’t make that determination, either. No matter what, we don’t need to reward men who have done harm with more opportunities for wealth, prestige, power and celebrity. Part of repenting is accepting the consequences of your actions; in this case, those consequences might come from the criminal justice system or from professional censure.”

We do not need to give them the benefit of the doubt; they have lost that privilege as a consequence of their actions.

We reserve that generosity of spirit for others. For someone who hasn’t yet proven themselves, or the people in our lives that are closest to us; those who have shown us their righteous character… but… really get on our nerves sometimes with their faults, we need to give them the benefit of the doubt, assume the best, and judge them favorably. 

When we shift our attention towards their strengths and away from their faults, they will also focus on their strengths. Rabbi Nachman of Breslov says, “Focus on the good… it is not incidental to your spiritual quest. It is vital.” 

We spend most of this season of introspection focusing on mistakes. Rabbi Nachman reminds us, we also need to search for the good in others and ourselves. 

The Hebrew phrase for gratitude, hakarat hatov, literally means to to recognize the good; to see the best in someone or in a situation; to assume the best. 

When we take time to cultivate gratitude for our loved ones, tell them what we love and appreciate about them, we cultivate those same qualities in ourselves. A mirror reflects both the good and bad. Just as we see the faults in others because they are often our own, when we focus on the good in others, we find the good in ourselves.

Stare into the mirror

Love your neighbor as yourself

Judge them favorably

On this Day of Judgement, and throughout our lives…

As you judged favorably, so may God judge you favorably.

Gmar Hatimah Tovah/May We Be Sealed for Good in the Book of Life

Rabbi Maderer Kol Nidre Sermon: Holding onto Torah as We Greet Each Wave of the Future

In the Talmud – the text of our ancient sages’ interpretation of Torah—Rabbi Gamliel tells a story: “Picture it. I am traveling on a ship. In stormy waters, from a distance, I see another ship, that has shattered and become submerged. I believe my friend Rabbi Akiva is on board, so I grieve over his apparent death. But when I disembark onto dry land, there is Rabbi Akiva approaching me!  Having survived, he invites me to study some Torah on the beach! I say to him: How are you here?! He responds: “A plank from the boat drifted to me.  I clung to it and I bowed my head, accepting each and every wave that drew near.”

Stormy waters, that cannot be denied?  A reality, that demands acceptance? This text originates from long ago, yet tells an eternal story.  Our tradition does not propose that we deny the reality or the uncertainty of the storm. Indeed, it understands that our days are filled with uncertainty, even anxiety about what is to come.  Rather than claim certainty, Jewish wisdom leans into the reality of the unknown and guides us to face it with courage and with our enduring Jewish values. Tomorrow morning in the Unetane Tokef prayer we will ask: Who will rest and who will wander, who will be humbled and who exaltedbecause we just don’t know! But through the discomfort, tradition guides us to cling to Jewish wisdom to rededicate ourselves to teshuvah, tefilah, tzedakah – repentance, prayer, and righteousness.

In the unknown, we turn to the essence of our tradition.

Our acceptance of reality is essential not only in our personal lives, but also in the life of our institutions and in our commitment to sustain them.  The season of Yom Kippur demands we transform; this era of American Judaism demands our institution transforms, as well.  The American Jewish community finds ourselves in an uncertain time of transition. Researchers report, and I can confirm: the pandemic disruption accelerated what was already in motion: there are more Jews outside of synagogues than within them. I trust you see this reality in the choices of your friends or family. Rodeph Shalom’s newly adopted Strategic Plan responds in two ways: First, the Plan commits to deepening engagement with our members.  And knowing that first step will not be sufficient, second: the Plan compels us to learn, about how we are going to transform in order to better serve this moment of American Jewish history.  Because as robust as our congregational life is, we are missing too many Jews and seekers to fulfill our vision. Our congregations’ membership structures that were created decades ago and served me and many of you well, cannot alone be the structures expected to serve the present and the future. We have exercised the muscles of transformation in our Rodeph Shalom past – that’s why we are still here! …And throughout Jewish history – that’s why we are still here! In our age, societal shifts compel us to think differently –that’s how we will still be here, thriving, through the generations / l’dor vador.  Judaism is not what needs to change; it is the human structures that define people’s relationship to Judaism that are incomplete.  It is the package in which we deliver Judaism – that needs new ideas. 

Here is how contemporary scholar Rabbi Benay Lappe characterizes the current era of Jewish life: She tells the story of a sociologist who when compiling the data of the 1990 National Jewish Population Study said to a friend: “There’s good news and there’s bad news. The good news is, Judaism will exist in 100 years; the bad news is it will be unrecognizable to us.” Rabbi Lappe’s take?  A reinvented Judaism need not be bad news. In her work called “An Unrecognizable Jewish Future: A Queer Talmudic Take,” Rabbi Lappe goes beyond honoring space for queer Jews in the Jewish community; she uses the term queer to think of any outsider, or once outsider, voice.  It’s those outsider voices that in so many eras of Jewish history, have brought the perspective critical to sustaining Judaism, from generation to generation/l’dor vador!

Why is such a diversity of voices essential? Rabbi Lisa Edwards imagines: If donkeys read Torah, all the donkey stories would jump out at them; every time they’d see a donkey in the text they’d say ––there’s me, there I am again!  All of those donkey stories that we completely miss.* Because it’s just not our experience.  

Well, what are we missing? The stories of the majority of Jews –that is, those on the fringes of our congregations.  They can help the Jewish community create something that may feel unrecognizable to our ancestors as Jews, especially Reform Jews, have done throughout the generations.

What stories in Philadelphia Jewish life, are we missing? How are people both within and beyond Rodeph Shalom bringing Jewish light to the big enduring questions of our lives: who am I, how should I live my life, what is my purpose? How can I close the gap between my values and my actions?  What parts of my heritage are eternal? The ways we wrestle with these questions have so much to teach us about the Jewish path for the coming generations.

It is ours to discover: what might be the shape of the future, and who will be molding it? In part, the answer is us—you–the heart of this congregation. The traditions, longings, uncertainties, connections, and questions in your hearts. But only some of the answer lies within our walls. Part of our understanding needs to expand by learning from Jews and seekers beyond. Not only welcoming them –which we already do –but listening to them for all the stories, we would otherwise completely miss. 

Torah asserts that not all listening is the same.  Sometimes the purpose of listening is just to consume information; other times the purpose goes deeper and listening can even transform us. Consider Judaism’s central prayer – these words from Torah: “Shma Yisrael Adonai Elohenu Adonai Echad /Listen O Israel, the Eternal is our God the Eternal is one.

Contemporary Rabbi Deborah Silver interprets the Shma, as the highest form of listening.  She explores the listening that connects us with the divine.  An encounter with God—or with any of God’s creatures—has the potential to bring us closer to a sense of oneness, to open us to hearts and minds different from our own, to emerge from the conversation, different from the way we went in. An encounter with the Holy One or with holiness changes us, if we let it. Here, Torah reveals transformative listening.  Transformative listening inspires us to understand insights far beyond our own, to seek growth that alters us, sparks new thinking, and shapes our future.

This highest form of listening is not easy.  Pulling us out of our comfort zones, it forces us to face reality today.  Transformative listening ensures that even as we return to our roots we untangle them from nostalgia.  Only then, can we become good ancestors for the generations to come.

As our Rodeph Shalom Boards lead this work of transformative listening and determine the path of our Strategic Plan, please look out for invitations in RS communications to get involved.  I hope all of us will bring our voices to this conversation and help shape the future.  And, understanding we are responsible for nothing less than the future of the Jewish People, we won’t stop there.  So, to whom else might we listen? Whom beyond our walls might seek Jewish life and bring insights about how to shape it?  As it turns out, lots of people.

Understandably, there’s been lament about the national decline in synagogue affiliation rates. Yet, the Union for Reform Judaism Vice President, Amy Asin, draws a different conclusion, one that rejects anyone’s temptation to throw up our hands in defeat or abdicate responsibility.  Amy Asin points to the recent Pew Study’s report that a high number of people identify as Jews, and care about Judaism,

but do not affiliate with a synagogue or Jewish organization. Amy Asin insists and convinces me this is not a reason for lament; this is good news. Opportunity! People might not be compelled by the package we decades ago designed for delivering Judaism, but they care about Judaism. Perhaps then, our congregation might become open to a new kind of relationship… to thinking differently about the possibilities of relationship to Jewish life at Rodeph Shalom and beyond.

A newer organization called Atra just completed a study of 18-44 year olds who identify with Judaism in some way.  The study finds this population is not rejecting Judaism or Jewish community; rather, they want more connection.  So many people, beyond our walls to whom we will listen.  In ways we cannot yet know, transformative listening with them, will change us. Supporting them, will transform us.  Trusting them, will shape the future.

Indeed, there is hope in the fact that the Jews and seekers outside of our walls, are many.  The institutional structure that was created in the 1950’s, worked for me.  I was raised in it.  I am here.  And you are here. We ought not abandon what already thrives–the heart of the Jewish community and this congregation.  And. To bring it forward means accepting that reality evolves through history. To move forward means encountering the future; and true encounter will change us.

Daunting as the notion of unknown future change may be, Jewish wisdom lights our path. Remember that shipwrecked Rabbi Akiva, who in stormy waters clings to the plank of wood as he bows his head before each wave that draws near? The Hebrew word for plank—that piece of shattered boat that appears –is “daf.”  When Rabbi Akiva grabs hold of the daf and navigates the waters instead of fighting the daunting waves he nods his head as each wave approaches maintaining calm, clarity, and acceptance. 

Contemporary Rabbi Laura Geller, telling the story, imagines him saying “yes” to each wave –riding it, even welcoming it. But here’s the secret sauce: she imagines that he is also strengthened, by his understanding of the wordplay.  For in Hebrew the word “daf,” that plank he hangs onto, also means a page of Talmud. What keeps Rabbi Akiva–himself, a timeless symbol of Torah study—what keeps Rabbi Akiva centered, ready to be present and respond to the world as it is? He is holding on to Torah.

Amid stormy waters, what keeps Rodeph Shalom centered, ready to be present, to respond to the world as it is?  We hold onto Torah. We welcome each wave and nod yes, ready to respond to uncertainty and unease with meaning and holiness.  None of us unchanged, all of us knowing there is no going back, we shall nod to greet each wave of the future.

G’mar Chatimah tovah – may this congregation and its future be sealed for goodness.

 

 

 

 

 

*As told by Rabbi Benay Lappe